Wild At Heart by John Eldridge is an excellent book for male Christians to help them re-capture their true identity in Christ and truly become the men they were created to be. Certainly it helped me understand that it's okay for men to be men, who and what I really am as a man and what that means for my destiny in Christ. For women it's a great insight into the male pysche, and hopefully will help them understand that they need to let men be men as God made them to be, not try to make them into women. It's even 20% off at Amazon at the moment too, so click on the title above and go buy it now.
I commend this book to you all.